9 steps Parenting
Every parent’s dream is to watch their children blossom as an adult filled with hopes,dreams and good intentions.
You are your child’ emotional coach.It’s your responsibility to help them label emotions.
Effective Parenting is all about the adequate understanding of how we nurture our child to access,reveal and achieve his or her inner potentials and happiness despite life’s inevitable difficulties.
So here are a few tips to help you to build up a healthy and positive parent/child relationship.
Perceive and relate your child’s feelings and needs without blaming, giving advice, or trying to fix the situation.When you respond to any difficult situations with empathy,your child will manifest the same thing.
None of us are perfect.we must stop holding our kids to a higher standard of perfection than we can attain ourselves.
2.Give your Time:
Time is the best gift for someone you love and care to strengthen the bond.
Plan and schedule some quality time on a regular basis to do something fun with your child.
Take a free walk to the park.
Read any inspirational storybook .
Playing some family games at night enhances the ability to concentrate and focus for a longer period of time.
Share a Laugh with your kid or sing silly songs with your child as singing increases vocabulary.
Help them with their studies.
Children will not remember you for the material things you have provided but for the feeling that you cherished them.
Compliment them for their work.
Show your love to them by big hug and kisses.
Surprise them with a reward for their good behaviour.
It encourages positive self esteem and self worth.
Don’t talk about their flaws in front of them.
4.Be a Role Model:
Children are good imitators.
More than what you tell them,the children will learn from what you do.So every word,movement and action matters.
You have a greater influence on your child’s life than others.
Give them something great to imitate.
5.Make them Self-Sustainable:
Teach them the importance of self-reliance because it helps to handle tasks efficiently and learn how to tackle things independently.
Teach them to take care of their belongings .
Teach them the value of money
Let them do their tasks independently.
Encourage them to clean and organize their stuff.
Ask them to help with some simple house hold chores.
6.Teach them Family Values:
Meaningful family rituals can be created to find learning moments in everyday opportunities such as watching TV together,playing games or word game,pretend play etc.
Through all these they can learn about self care,honesty,Teamwork,motivation,time management to grow up with positive outcomes.
7.Provide structure and safety:
Pay close attention to your child for injury free and fun exploration.
Give them realistic explanation of their queries and concerns.
8.Develop Healthy Food Habits:
For your child’s growth and development,good nutrition and balanced diet is necessary.
Limit fast food intake.
To encourage healthy eating habits eat meals together as a family as often as possible.
Love them unconditionally and have faith in them.Stop complaining and build their self-esteem by behaving positively so that it will help them shine and blossom.